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Don’t Give Up. Life Will Get Better.

December 11, 2010

Overview

Your perspective on your situation can be a beautiful thing. As a matter of fact, how you see yourself, life in general, and the world, will reflect in EVERY ACTION YOU TAKE. If you believe an obstacle like a chronic illness to be a death sentence, you will probably slow down or give up on life. However, if you believe it to be a detour on the road of life, you will likely thrive.

I’m here to tell you that you don’t have to slow down. You can thrive. Whatever traumas you may have faced in life, or will face in the future are not insurmountable. As long as you perceive yourself conquering your obstacles, make no mistake about it, they WILL be conquered!

My Personal Story

When I was younger (about 9 years old), I loved dancing. Ballet, jazz, hip-hop, you name it. I was freaking good at it, too. But I quit. Why? Because of what other people thought of me. Everyone at school was calling me names and making fun of me for enjoying dance. Unfortunately, I took it to heart. I let other people determine how I felt about myself, and life in general. That’s pretty much a fatal move. Don’t do that. Never let other people dissuade you from doing what you love for any reason. Remember: There are always tons of good reasons/excuses not to do something. But if you can find one GREAT reason to do that something, it’s always worth it.

When I got sick, I foresaw no end to my cycle of hospitalizations. I thought I would be in and out of the hospital, in such severe pain for the rest of my life. I said: “God, if you ever let me break this cycle, I won’t let you down. If you ever give me a chance to dance or do physical exercise again, I’ll do it! I promise!”

Of course, I didn’t expect to ever set foot in a dance studio again.

Well, as you can see in my previous post, I have achieved a full side split after many months of daily stretching. It was a long journey, but really nothing compared to what I had been through.

In the past week, the most amazing thing happened to me. I set foot in my old dance studio for a ballet class! It was such an incredible experience to dance again, see my old teacher, and prove to myself that there really aren’t many true limitations in my life. Just perceived obstacles. Oh, and I’m still really good at ballet. I guess it’s an inborn talent that doesn’t go away. :)

It’s funny how physical exercise, which used to harm me so much, is now my greatest fuel towards achievement.

Life tends to get better as you go along. There will always be unexpected obstacles, but I sincerely hope you build up the strength to deal with them.

The payoff is worth it, I PROMISE.

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  • Justin Oliver

    Great video Josh, really inspiring. I know some things in life you can’t change and its better to take charge of your destiny then sit back and wait for the inevitable. Hopes and dreams can only go so far in this world (and its not very far). I’m glad you are doing better and are able to do the things you love. When i get back from this deployment i want to hopefully get together some time. I’ll treat you to a beer if you are allowed. All my best.

  • http://www.optimisticwellness.com Josh Lipovetsky

    Justin, that’s such a great point, man. Hopes and dreams don’t really go far at all. It’s that daily action that’s so imperative.

    I really hope things have been going well over at your end.

    Thank you so much, man! All of my best to you and your family, and I look forward to hanging out when you get back from your deployment :)

    Josh Lipovetsky.

    PS: I can’t/don’t drink beer, but that doesn’t mean that I can’t have a good time. Trust me on that one :)

  • http://www.laurensixx.tumblr.com Lauren

    Josh, you’re my inspiration. Love you<3

  • http://www.optimisticwellness.com Josh Lipovetsky

    I love you too, Lauren. Stay strong, my friend.

  • http://www.6ixpassions.com JiPé

    Each morning and at bedtime I write a thought based on me personal emotion of the moment. This morning wrote commitment and wisdom: “Sharing his experience of life makes us grow.”

    When I watch your videopost this morning I understand that I wrote that phrase from you to me. Thank you for having shared your experience. It is truly inspirational.

  • http://www.optimisticwellness.com Josh Lipovetsky

    Jean-Philippe,

    I think your routine of writing down thoughts twice a day is incredibly empowering. Keep it up, man! :)

    It’s really cool this post synced up with your written thought. I’m glad that I shared my experience, and more so, I’m glad that it was inspirational to you! I will do my best to share my personal stories more often.

    Take care!
    Josh Lipovetsky.

  • Luke P

    Great to hear such motivating words from an

  • Luke P

    Old friend, we all miss you and always do what you do best Josh! Thank You!

  • http://www.optimisticwellness.com Josh Lipovetsky

    Thank you so much for the kind words, Luke! Is this Luke from dance class?

  • Luke P

    Yup!

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